Could you post a link to it? :-)

http://www.4shared.com/file/g-lD1P4s/unsignedMms.html

Thanks superstar! I'll pull it apart. I'm not much of a themer but maybe something will stand out. Great job by the way :-)

thanks I'm trying!!

Maybe others can help. Here it is de-compiled

Thanks for trying  :)

I might be way off but may this be the issue?

Try this @ngiordano:

looking to change it from gray though

@rachelm920 those are the values you're looking for. Change those to your desired color :-)

#ff181818 Is gray, which is when she recieves a message

#ff2f2f2f is purple, which is when she sends a message.

Change them both to the same color and you got a good theme.

Oh yes it is lol. My mistake. I hate hex :-P

Don't worry man, a themer actually knows all of this :D

Well I found it Mr. Themer :-P

Awesome! I knew I missed something!! Thank you guys!!!!

Now I'm really gonna challenge myself and try to edit the .9 files LOL

Lol. Thanks Mr. Developer. Lmao! :D

@rachelm920 - Take it easy with those, I recommend you read a good guide before starting.